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Not all media is like that and the fact that you are so categorical in your comments shows that you're not too rational. Wait till you meet a girl, I doubt you'll be rational then either.
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PCG is right, emotions are overpowering - either that, or you shut yourself away from male-kind. I think we should all have gotten married at 15 when puberty first struck.
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Another sign that 'he's just not that into you' is that he keeps his woman from meeting his friends, family as though she's a secret. Or worse yet as though he's too embarrased to be seen with her. When a guy is in love, he wants to shout it to the world. He wants to have her on his arm to let everyone see them together.
Basically when a guy is into someone he makes her his #1 priority. It's not that his life should be on halt for her, but he can't wait to call her, he can't wait to see her. There's no, "Oh sorry I forgot, I got busy."
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:D Catty
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very true. i agree 100 % 
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Saimanyc, right on the mark :k:
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Family part is right…he should introduce her to his family when the relationship goes to the next level. About friends, it is good that he is keeping her away from his friends…don’t let your woman meet your friends. I think we had a thread about that when you do such kind of thing.
I have to admit that I am very very shocked that the Girls at Gupshup are having problemos…Most of the women go to the extremes most of the times with their emotions and if they have feelings for someone, it is one sided. Use your head next time…if you are ready to sacrifice things for him what is he doing for you?
If this is complicated then you can always party your azz off:p
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^ Well if you ask why they're not doing jack shyte for you, they always come up with some excuse that is semi-believable. The fact that they're making excuses shows they dont wanna lose you. But I guess that's part of the "stringing-along" tactic. I'm sorry, I usually think if someone says to you "I really like you - I want this to go somewhere" they mean it...
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most people in the world dont know what love is.....especially here in the west. and that is when u encounter the types of problems mentioned in this thread.
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pcg meri hoonay lagi hai. 
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jaldi honey wali hain insha-allah. his already told his sister about me and she really likes me and soon either him/his sister will talk to his parents and then Im going to tell mine.
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Don't be so immature as to assume that people in the West don't know what love is. That's like us Westerners saying that all Eastern people are living in the middle ages...
oh wait, nevermind. That's true.
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Not necessarily - there is a thing called politness
Even if you are not into the other person, if someone says “I car for you” or some other mushy stuff of that regards - you can’t say “I don’t” right on the face at that time. Its insulting, degrading to the least …
Its very hard to put someone down and go back to being friends (I personally think its IMPOSSIBLE).
Yes totally agree that people (xpecially gurls) need to realize that “my love will change him/her” = Love conquers all , is as good as you playing lotterry and becoming a millionare.
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^ true.
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Well, you are not the first girl to say that and won’t be the last one. I have seen many of them and I know they waste their time with these boys because they HOPE that he will change. They HOPE that he will come back to them…
It’s called gambling of heart and most of the time girls get hurt. I mean would you give your car, house and money to someone for some semi-believable shyte? Then why heart? It should be as equally important to you…you know what the old movies of Pakistan got it right when hero tried to flirt and all he got a slap in the face. So, next time if he gives you a semi-believable shyte give him a slap in the face. That would be the realtionship’s new test, not going to dinner and watching a movie but how he reacts and really understands for making you a second priority.
If he loves you and cares about you he will get it straight for good and will give you the TRUE explanation OR he will run away from you like a headless chicken. Just be brave and try not to get walked over.
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true.