I mean the paindoo-est of desi guys has the ability to keep 2-3 girls on the line at the same time.
lol.
this is so not true. first off its expensive to maintain one girl. and if anything its the women that like to keep men around as the backups. so incase sh(i)t happens with nemero uno, you ladies call up numero dos. sobbing and complaining about the first guy. and while sobbing is all a front deep you're really trying to get the second guy in the sack as quickly as possible.
atleast we men dont play games like that. but continue ur men bashing...
What's in a phone call, he calls me everyday, when I hung up on him he called back...but he's just a pal, with no interest in me, a good friend, a good man.
Yes I've be told I'm an awesome and special...but that's stuff even a good friend does.
There's gotta be more to it than phone calls and compliments.
to get to the right one. Just the way a man doesn't
need to go through a million girls to get to the right
one. If a person has been with even two people
what do they have left to offer someone anyway
when they talk about wanting to get the right
person. I'm not talking just physically, but more
importantly what's left
emotionally. Even if a girl or guy has been with only
two people who's to say that they won't be in
a constant state of comparison between their
two mates.
Guys and girls who get the wrong vibes get them
because that's what they want to be receiving at their ends
whereas if they were to put their personal desires aside the truth would
become more visible to them.
I think guys are pretty simple and their messages are pretty clear. That's why I found it surprising (when I watched that Oprah show) that so many women are still waiting for their boyfriend to 'pop the question'. Unfortunately alot of guys will keep a woman dangling because she's convenient and easy. And too many women have needy hearts and make themselves believe that they can make somebody love them. I'm currently watching a 'reality series' on abc called Hooking Up. it's about NYC women who do internet dating and the camera follows them around on these dates. It's a very voyeuristic look into how Americans date. There are so many rules, so many cues to read into. A first date is crucial for finding the connection to see if they click. Most kiss by the end of the first date. Then they decide if they'll see each other again. Then by the third date they're sleeping together. Then they decide if they really like each other or if it's not working.
Relationships are so casual and move so quickly for Americans. So I can see why women get so confused and want so much.
For that reason alone you should overpower your emotions...Your strength doesn't lie in what Oprah, Dr. Phil or some other crack media throws at you...
Your strength is reasoning and reasoning should always be based on something solid yet profound...
Would you like me to list the names of those who reasoned before emoting?
PCG tell him that maybe his life changes only bec of some1 being emotional to him for no reason at all which will be the biggest reason for him to follow up.
life is so adventurous.
pcg i feel u read a lot of sidney sheldon novels, but i also went through sweet valley university when i was only in grade 8.
No, I do not read sidney sheldon novels. I do not know who sidney sheldon is.
Lajjo, maybe you should use that advice in the religion forum when you post :k: Maybe pass it on to yoru religious buddies as well. The whole “because some mullah told me so I’m right” is not exactly great reasoning…
Laj by nature women are more emotional and sensitive and men easily take advantage of that. not to say it doesn't happen teh othe rway around, women treating men like dirt, but the former situation is more prevalent, esp among desis.
