Once in a blue moon i want to admire a woman but… I can not use gender specific term. I would have to use masculine term to be convey proper intentions. For instance I want to admire courage and bravery of a guppan I would say
** Zobia is my Hero !!!
**
I can not dare say She is my heroine. Because
it would not convey my pure emotion, rather it may offend her.
Similarly we have this gender bias in other languages too ..
*bulaoo Mundey dey yaar nu, aakey saman chukkey te gaddi ich rakhey *
Now mundey da yaaar is just a frank friend or chuddi exchange brother who mostly lives in same muhallah and easily accessible for help. But the same guy become Kurri da yaar whole scenerio changes. kurri and her yaar are no chuddi exchange brother sisters but lot more than that, He may try to sneak her from girls college to take her to Mcdonalds or Lawrance garden for cheap date. He has to stay clear from danda bardaar police who are the worst enemy of daytime daters in Pakistan. Also he may try to take her out for buying bangle and gifts and stuff for her on Eid.
Despite doing all this Kurri da yaar can never be considered as much respectable and accessible as mundey da yaar.
How can we bridge this gender gap in societies so that A standalone heroine is as much icon as a hero… and Kurri da yaar is treated no different than mundey da yaar ?
^ zobia tum ne tu gajar ke halwey mian Aaam ka achar daal dia
Khota hi khoo ich sut dita aye
Ek dafa zobia ko ek noujawaan ne josh main aakar apney khoon se khat likha
zobia ne jawab mian likh bheja aapka group A negative hai our khoon mian iron ki shadeed kami hia. aap folic acid khaya karian our agli dafa apney khoon se khat likhney ke bajaye murghi zibah kar ke uska khoon istemaal karain, nahi tu ragoon main dortey phirney ke leye kuch nahi bacehy ga
or may yeh bhi likhati k murghi k khoon say likhanay say bhi phele us ka test kerwa lain kaheen wo murgi ke mareez na hoo otherwise it gonna make it further contagious. n if u spreaded some cheap perfume on it, that cheap “ether” may further react with the blood of that murghi>potential hazardous gas. which may cause a death of me n phansi ka phanda ready for him.
btw i thought u asked a serious question. mujhay nahi pata may nay kis terha is rang may bhang dali hai