Re: Henpecked husband or a true man?
You only consider the non-whiners to be feminists but I don’t consider them to be feminists at all, just mature, sensible women. Feminism as a political force (i.e. legal equality) has accomplished its goals so when I see someone who calls themselves a feminist I can’t help but think they are whiners.
Given the number of immature women who consider themselves feminists, I think you do other women a disservice by lumping them in with those crazies. Standing up for the rights of men or women is something a good citizen should do, standing up for perceived/imaginary legal inequalities, for women only, is being a whiner.