Hi guys i am new to this forum so i hope you will be abe to give me kind and helful responses. thankyou
First of all i want to tell you that i have been in a relationship with this guy for 9 months. We met each other at a friends party and became really good friends, we spent alot of time getting to know each other by talking on the phone/texting, one day he shared how he felt about me and wanted us to be together blah blah. At first i wasnt so sure about all of this but slowly slowy i started to like him and now i cant live without him. We speak almost everyday and have alot in common. he’s a really nice person and i have basically falling in love with him he cares alot for me and always tells me how much he loves me and wants us to last forever…the problem is we live far apart form each other and rarely get to meet, maybe once a month and sometimes not even that. We have made arrangements many times to see each other but nothing happened. He tells me he’s realy busy and dosen’t have time. Yes i know he has alot on at the moment but why cant he take some time out for me. This hurts me as i am eager to meet up with him as its nearly been 3 months but yet he dosent do nothing about it. He says he will make it up to me soon. Guys help me what should i do? I really do love him and i do want to spend the rest of my life with him but why is he behaving like this
Hi guys i am new to this forum so i hope you will be abe to give me kind and helful responses. thankyou
First of all i want to tell you that i have been in a relationship with this guy for 9 months. We met each other at a friends party and became really good friends, we spent alot of time getting to know each other by talking on the phone/texting, one day he shared how he felt about me and wanted us to be together blah blah. At first i wasnt so sure about all of this but slowly slowy i started to like him and now i cant live without him. We speak almost everyday and have alot in common. he's a really nice person and i have basically falling in love with him he cares alot for me and always tells me how much he loves me and wants us to last forever.......the problem is we live far apart form each other and rarely get to meet, maybe once a month and sometimes not even that. We have made arrangements many times to see each other but nothing happened. He tells me he's realy busy and dosen't have time. Yes i know he has alot on at the moment but why cant he take some time out for me. This hurts me as i am eager to meet up with him as its nearly been 3 months but yet he dosent do nothing about it. He says he will make it up to me soon. Guys help me what should i do? I really do love him and i do want to spend the rest of my life with him but why is he behaving like this :(
well basically because he's a guy lol..........but seriously if you want to know how serious he really is about you just back of a little bit and give him some space......from the sound of it he is just taking you for granted that you are there you need to start making yourself a little bit unavailable at times so that he sees that you do have your own life and he can't just keep acting like you will always be there if he's not serious about this
next time he asks you to meet up with him just tell him you can't for whatever reason for that week if he's really serious about this relationship he will make an effort to get together with you no matter what his life consists of
well basically because he's a guy lol..........but seriously if you want to know how serious he really is about you just back of a little bit and give him some space......from the sound of it he is just taking you for granted that you are there you need to start making yourself a little bit unavailable at times so that he sees that you do have your own life and he can't just keep acting like you will always be there if he's not serious about this
next time he asks you to meet up with him just tell him you can't for whatever reason for that week if he's really serious about this relationship he will make an effort to get together with you no matter what his life consists of
If you are so passionate about it ask your family to move where he lives and you can meet frequently.
Otherwise compromise with the situation and be patient.
you can get married , engaged , baat pakki and you might not feel so hopeless.
If u both love each other then u should go for engagement , i will also give u a sign that he really want to marry u. . . otherwise he was just needing u for time being. . .
