What should one do when he/she feels utterly helpless?
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Ok its confirmed. You are passing indirect messages to someone.
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ufff TLK....stop being so nosy.
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you find a weakling and take out your frustration on him.
TLK, zara idhar padhaariye...
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cry. and then analyze the situation.
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First pray. Then talk to somebody you trust. Then objectively detach yourself and review the situation. Usually by this stage you are back in business. But if it persists then question your expectations - the worst sorrow comes from mismatch between expectations and accomplishment.
The first 3 steps are guaranteed to fix under-accomplishment problems.
The 4th step will help you right size unreasonable expectations.
Good luck
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cry. and then analyze the situation.
rolla, crying is only a reaction and it helps cope with the impact of sorrow. It does not fix the cause of the sorrow (except when you are a child and crying will make the dad/mom give you the candy:)
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What should one do when he/she feels utterly helpless?
Pray... Divert your attention to something you can control (whatever that means to you).
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Turn to Allah, 
Seek help in patience and prayers!
One mistake we make when calamity strikes is that we go farther away from Allah, we stop praying, making Dua’a, etc. Rather, this is the time when we need Him more and more. Of course, we should remember Allah all the times, anyways.
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Thank you all....nice replies. jazakallah
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bebasi, dard ka alam
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TLK, zara idhar padhaariye...
why? there is nothing wrong with my stomach
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If you listen to Music for therapy then I suggest this classic song:
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lol
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what?
so I admit, my hindi is not good
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what?
so I admit, my hindi is not good
lol do u know the meaning of padhaariye?
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sounds like something dirty to me ..
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sounds like something dirty to me ..
aray baba no. padhaariye ka matlab woh nahi jo tum samajh rahe ho. lol
its means "come here/welcome" as in idhar tashreef laaiye.
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its means "come here/welcome"
dekha, i told you its a dirty word.
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it’s so depressing. :no: