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@Ishi88

Salam stuck
This might not seem a serious issue to anyone else but in my opinion it really is a serious issue. Firstly he shouldn’t have ran to ur sister, if you had told him not to tawk/meet ur sister he should have listened to you. Wat if he had asked you to not to tawk/meet with his brother, and you would have done the same thing, how would he react? Do ask him this question.
Please postpone your shaddi for now, give him sometime and see how things go. Overtime if u feel that he has changed himself then you can always marry him. The reason im asking you to postpone ur wedding is because this was a very immature beheaviour, it shows how much he trusts you and how much he cares about wat u say to him.
Aagar abi say woh aisa ker raha hay tu, agar shadii k bad tum ussay kesi kam sya mana kero aur woh ja ker wohi kam karay tu phir kaya kero gi tum? us waqt to woh tumhara shoher hoga, us waqt to tumhay is say b ziyada bura lagay ga. So please DO tawk to him about his beheaviour and tell him how you feel about him now.

Jaha tuk baat hay app ki sister ki, i think you should STOP sharing ur personal stuff with her. Yeah she is ur sister and she probably will realise her mistake with time, but agar aap jantay ho k unki yeh tanay dainay wali adut unk saath rahay ge tu you shud be carefull b4 sharing anything with her.

Don’t worry too much Inshallah sab theek ho jay ga. Bes aap apnay fiance say baat kero and unhay batao k un ka is terha ap k manna kiay baghair ap ki sister say milna ap ko bilkul b acha nahe laga. And aik baat aur agar ho sakay to (if ur close to one of ur parents either mum or dad) please unhay b yeh sari baat bata do ta k agar kal koi baat ho to woh ap say naraz na ho.

Take care

Ishii r u som kinda marriage counselor …

will you goona pay for the next time wedding expenses .. ???