Re: help..
Thanks for that RH. I feel better after reading on it. And no, there is no problems with my parents. They just hold themselves back after all has happened b/c obv they don't want to be the reason to cause any misunderstandings in my family. And they certainly are not, but they've kept their dist ever since all happened. Obv they're very hurt after my mil went ballistic and I don't expect my husband to negate his mother's "orders". But it works out for me, b/c before she would fone 50 times in a day to ask on what was going on here (while my husband woud be at work) wanting to know each and every little detail (and like I said, she lives oceans away).
Since my parents have backed off and obv, my husband also made sure that his mom doesn't call me or talk to me when he's not around, there's much peace at home. I would rather talk to my parents all the time and have them come over, or go visit them like I used to before, but Im willing to sacrifice on that b/c obv once that begins, my MIL (my bil, her major informant) would have issues again and things would get out of hand.
Sigh..