Re: Help! =)
**Exactly my problem... Even the poeple like me could never wear HEAVY bridal sets ever again... I told my mom to purchase that silver gold plated bridal set for me, and tell my SIL the same, which she plainly refused... Then I told my mom to make tikka (I want SMALL tikka and BIGGGG jhoomar) we went to the jeweller, and now I'm having gold tikka and artificial jhoomar, EXACTLY of the same design as of my set, no one could say it's artificial...
Another problem, I wanted to have walima set not AS BIG as wedding day, unable to convince my SIL yet (she's like "mera aik hi bahi ha, mien tu karoungi.. and my mom is like let them do whatever they want)...
I mean what would I do of 5 tikkas (one engagement + 1 nikkah + 1 barat+ 1 walima + 1 have one other)???????
The option I have in my mind is, like I gave my engagement tikka to my SIL, and ask her to make another earing out of the same design, at leas I can use it!
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