Re: help..
Tell the adults to come out of their cave and join the rest of humanity, we are in the 21st century for crying out loud.
forget the 21 st century....even in our beloved prophet's (SAW) days it was allowed to see each other once before getting married.
In Islam a woman who wears niqab is allowed to show her face to the man she is about to marry. So why cant a guy come over to see/meet his potential bride?
If the guy and girl want to see each other and talk to each other to see if they are compatible....then the parents shouldnt say no...because it it their Islamic right to do so before they get married.