AjnabiLarki:- Lets just look at it with only one angle. You are married to him and you have rights over him. First take your family into confidence and then make him understand that it is not a game that they played. He has got to be serious and there are laws to make him realise his responsibilities. Dont let him feel you are not prepared to take on to him. Allah is with you and He shall guide you to success, Insha-Allah. Aameen.