Re: help please!
If that is the only reason u could always open ur own clinic or something and work the hours you choose to.. If his reasons are ideological obviously that’s more problematic..
Is he conservative in general? You need to get a clear idea on his views about things before u make such a huge leap into marriage and a move to Pakistan as well as the whole living with inlaws situation (you might struggle as u’ve already mentioned it’s possible you’d feel ‘suffocated’ and these feelings could become even more intense if you’re not working and stuck at home all day with them)..