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a very dear uncle of mine wants me too see girls but i am very shy.i get nervous easily.And then i have heard that girls are sensitive and they get hurt if someone says no after seeing them for rishta purposes.

I dont have much experience with girls.Should i go on with my uncles idea and see some girls.If so can you help me with what should i ask the girls.What should i wear?

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^ Guys can get hurt by rejection as well. You might like a girl, but she might reject you. It's a part of life, it stings, but it happens.

To make this process easier....why don't you tell your uncle what kind of girl you're looking for (physical attributes, educational qualifications, personality, etc)....and your uncle can narrow down the search based on the criteria. That way you won't have to meet anybody and everybody. It saves you a bit of time.

Does your uncle have pictures of the girl? If so, then look at the pictures, and decide whom you'd like to meet. That makes it a bit easier as well.

Wear a nice dress shirt and trousers. And understand that the girl is just as nervous as you are. And talk to her about her interests, hobbies, expectations, etc.

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Im sure the 1-eyed girls will be just fine. :)

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Its a part of life, if you are not compatible, you are not compatible, so every guy or girl should be ready to understand that as past of the rishta process. You only have to tell your uncle that the girl was uncompatible if you don't like her. If u really must explain yourself, just give some generic excuse like she is over-qualified for you or something so that the girl is not emotionally scarred for life by rejection.

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Ask ur uncles wife out he'll leave u trust me

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You have had more experiences with girls than I have had hot dinners, so don't worry, you have nothing to worry about!

:D

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Hahahah DDR - was going to say something along those line :rotfl:

It’s chatterbot afterall!

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Larkion kay jhimut main rah kar wo larkion say shirmata bohat hai.

Ask any lady to help you in finding and seeing girl. Tell her your likes and dislikes when they approve someone then you can see pictures and if you like picture and agree to maary then go and see the girl. Simple.

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then dont go to see em. just be a mushriki guy and eat the food, which they will serve you :D

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:lifey: Itz coz we fink alike inniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiittttttttttttt!

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This outfit will certainly impress the ladies:

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You don't need to ask the girls any questions just sit there and giggle from time to time. Don't forget to smile and act shy. The girls will be pleased if you refer to them as "ji behan".

Voila!

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I guess no one is taking him seriously???

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No one is supposed to take him seriously:smack: this thread is all a joke.. done to mock and stuff nothing else.. !

Have you not read his blogs?:cb: Even the nickname chatterbot is a JOKE.

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Sorry, I am new here but I did get a feeling that he was joking around based on some peoples comments.

OH well..need to start reading more stuff around here.

note to self: Chatterbot is the entertainer here

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you should see me :blush: