My friends fiance is ignoring her more and more and they only get to chat like twice a month if she is lucky. She thinks that everything else is more important to him and not she anymore. The boy is her cousin and it was love from his side. What should my friend do, i cant see her sad every day 
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*Originally posted by blushing_vision: *
My friends fiance is ignoring her more and more and they only get to chat like twice a month if she is lucky. She thinks that everything else is more important to him and not she anymore. The boy is her cousin and it was love from his side. What should my friend do, i cant see her sad every day :(
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maybe he's just confused about how he should be acting because they are no longer simply cousins and not yet husband-wife.
the other thing is that email and IM can be frustrating when they are the only way to interact between two people. are they allowed to see eachother? go out together? or, at the very least, talk on the phone?
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*Originally posted by Sahar02: *
the other thing is that email and IM can be frustrating when they are the only way to interact between two people. are they allowed to see eachother? go out together? or, at the very least, talk on the phone?
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^Tell me about it.
Anyhow BV, in my view, there is no excuse to talk to your fiance as less as twice a month! Gosh, how will she get to know him if that is the extent of her interaction? I suggest she demand meeting with him more often and at the very least talking consistently on the phone would help as well. There is just no excuse good enough for him to limit his conversations at this stage. Another thing: why is she letting him control the flow of this relationship? It should be a two-way street! Men who control the relationship and make lame excuses about why they refuse to talk to you on the phone or better yet, to meet you in person often, are hiding something. Been through it recently so I'm talking from experience. I hope she gets some sense into her head and tries to talk about the issue with him. If he is open to suggestion, great! If not, she needs to let go or else guarateed, this will surely become a pattern in their future relationship as a married couple.
Salaam Blushing Vision
I think he is confused like Sahar02 said.
Coz soon he is not a cousin but her Husband.
And he don't know how to act.
But that don't means that he has to avoid her.
You told she speak to him only 2 a month if she
is lucky that's not much huh.
I agree with Sweetpie youre friend has to talk to
her fiancee about that.
And maybe it is better if she talk to him face to face
if that's possible otherwise woh usko phone karey our
baath karein.
Because if the relation start like this phir shadi ke
baath kya hoga? Think about it.
Allah Hafiz.
Nilu (Anila)
Maybe she should try not to be so posessive. Give the guy some breathing space :D