ok my friend needs help. Now I have advised him, but i cant seem to come up with the perfect soln.
Anyhow, this is the scenario. There is this bunch of girls who are frnds among themselves, some of r hot (refereed as H from now onwards) and some r not so hot(refereed as NSH from now onwards). so my frnd has his eyes on the hot one, but unforunately one NSH has her eyes on him. Now whenever my frnd tries to like talk/dance with Hs, the NSH comes along and pretty much spoils the fun. Now my frnd wants to get rid of this NSH constantly bugging him but isnt sure how.
I told him to just kinda act rude, but he’s too pussy and nice to act such a way. And more importantly, if he blows NSH off, thats definately gonna leave a bad impression on Hs. My frnd also doesnt wanna play em both, cuz he really doesnt see the NSH in that way.
^sara H and NSH is a matter of an individual's eye, not a standard, you know 'its all in the eye of the beholder'.
lussi,
pal, i guess the only option open to your friend so that nothing gets spoiled is to get the NSH into implying more openly that she's into him, then he can say to her the stuff like, 'o i never thought of you like that, we're just friends, i'm sorry' and tell her he's into her friend H, that way though she will be annoyed, the road to H would be less rough and mnay other dangerous situations would have been avoided.
good idea right?
Ur friend tell Nsh clearly that he doesn't see what in her.
And just back off! And say to ur friend not to be Pussy.
Sometimes a person have to be hard.
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*Originally posted by funguy: *
I feel sorry for your friend that he is seeking help from a DA like you.
DA: Dumbass
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Oh, I thought you meant District Attorny.
Lussi, why doesn't your friend just tell the NSH girl to leave him alone nicely, by saying a standard line:
You are a very nice girl and I am sure there is a much better guy out there for you. I wish I felt the same for you, but unfortunately I don't. So buck off sister!!!
thanks for the suggestion guys. I'll pass em on to my frnd.
Haris: yeh its good idea but more time he spends with NSH in trying to get her feelings out, the less time he has left with H. Cuz the problem is that they hang out togethar, perhaps he should try to isolate the H ones.
Nilu: well this would not go well with H ones. And the NSH now clearly pissed cuz she got rejected so harshly, would make sure that he wont be able to hookup with H. My frnd does not want to take unecessary pangas..nomesayn
Shikra: yeh i guess that can work
XTC: unforunately that seems to be best option for now. My frnd doesnt want to be comeof as a jerk & a shallow guy (even though he is) infront of H.
lussi I think the fact that the NSH is completely overlooking you presence means that you're very very extremely NSH that even the NSH can't see you :p
