helo sis n bros
today i wana discus my life problem
i was in love frm d day i was 8 years old n d man i love also loves me alot so i got maried with him people say em lucky i recoverd my disease n got my love
but d problem is my husband is not wht he looks like
woh bht gusay wala hai uska aik he mission hai k kaise apni biwi ko necha dekhaya jaye 4 bando k samney
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mjhe help karo people meri shdi khatray main hai mjhe koi aisa asta btaya jaye jis se mere hsband ka gusa khatem ho jaye woh mere per bht gusa kerta hai abhi hmari shadi ko mahina b nhi hwa aur uska atitude itna hai k roz raat ko 2 ya 3 ghantey main roti hon
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There are duas you can read... can someone paste the link where you read and blow on fruit and give to the husband..
I think crying will not help as he seems not to be getting the point it is hurting you.. Maybe silence and ignore his anger a smuch as you can..
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when I was in trouble someone told me to recite ayat-e-karima . You can read it if you want.
and discus your problem with your parents or your elder sibling too ! They should know what is going on in your life !
aur apkay husband ap par ghusaa kiyon kartay hain ? jab tak app humko reason nahi batayee gi we can not advise u anything.
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When i was 8, I used to think love mean ammi giving us a big hug before putting us to bed and nothing more :)
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hold up a second: you got married at 18? and also spontaneously recovered from the hole in your heart with supposedly you were supposed to get a heart transplant for and that kept you sick for ages and ages and ages?
yeah completely true story
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I think he has blood pressure . Make sure you don’t put too much spices and salt in his food . :nono:
Btw if you couldn’t understand him in 10 years then why you are judging him in a month ?
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You people understand what she wrote?
HOW?
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years of training my friend 
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koi waja nhi hoti unkey gusa kerne ki bus koi b baat ho jaye choti c jaise main poch lon kahan ja rahe ho to shuru ho jate hain mjhe toka mat karo
khumar behan em 19 now n allah ka shukar hai em out of tht
now i realy need help plz confucius tel me d duas
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The whole sittuation has a big question mark on it .. like someone above said .. if you couldnt understand or you knew what you were getting into .. aint it a wee bit late for complaining now ??
and if he truely loves you then he d knw that e ll lose ya if he gona make ya cry everyday .. the guys prolly high with all the pressure and responsbility .. of getting married .. maybe you should wait it out ..it might tire him ..cos if he was doing ghussa etc for past ten years then why ya get married 
and if hes only doing it now .. then its maybe his senses kicking in telling him whats e got into and the whole life ahead ..
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pleae don't feed.....
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Maria app k husband ki age kiya hai?
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^she said 8...
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Take a break from your husband.....unless you're a troll and THIS is what your break consists of.
Tell your husband that you're not going to listen to what he has to say if he won't respect you and talk to you in a civilized manner...........and that from now onwards....if he starts throwing a tantrum like a 2-year-old........you're not going to be his punching bag and endure the abuse. Tell him that when he's ready to talk like an adult....you'll be there to listen.
So...next time he starts screaming/insulting you....leave the room. Don't even argue with him. Stay calm and leave. Maybe when he knows that nobody will be there to put up with it...he'll tone it down. But if things get worse, then seek someone's help (a family member, trusted friend, counselor, etc).
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best advice redvelvet:k:
thanx alot for ur schgreat adcive i gues it is d best way to save ma mariage life
thanx
may u live long n happy
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hmmmmmmmm
y do i keep seeing my situation in every ok, almost every thread
my husband puts a tantrum, he insults and abuses me......
now, as i have said earlier, after 5 yrs of marriage, i know when a storm is coming and how to row my boat through...
redvelvet is very right, i had done and am doing the same thing...
its my daily life story