Re: HELP ME
itsme be realistic and be honest.
You are telling me you will still be clam and pretend everything is fine even if your daughter claims she is engaged. It seems like you definately has alot more patience then me.
Yeah i also strongly feel there is no point of getting married at this early age. Both guy and girl have no freakin clue what they want from their lives. They are very young and immature.
last but not least if my daughter or son falls in to any of these things. I am the one to blame. I probably didnt teach them the right things.
It bothers the crap out of me when i see young girl or boy falling in love wasting their lives at such early age especially those who live in here or western side of the world. They have everything they want or even if they dont they can still get some where on their own. Plus we have thousands of homeless girls and boys back home in Pakistan. Who are willing to do anything to become something in life. Who want to do something for their country who want to go far in life. There are those who want to do something for their blind mother or disabled father.
It hurts me when i see someone who has everything in life that anyone would want but they are falling after someone.
I am not against love i think i am one of those people who think marriage should not happen if there is no love. But at this early age Sorry i have no patience for stupidity.
last thing- If my daughter or son falls in to these stupid things to a point where they are engaged. I am blaming myself for that. I did something wrong while raising them and i am going to fix it. I would probably take the next flight back home the moment we land there beat the crap out of my kid and send to Army school.