help me to learn how to let go

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Re: help me to learn how to let go

@parisbynight

hmm but when i try to focus on the husband and mentioned my own life to my parents, I am told i changed and think of myself only.

it is the feeling that i am not needed anymore that i find it hard to deal with. I am used to take thigns in control when there are problems. Solve everyone issues and confort everyone. And now i am told that it has nothing to do with me so i should back off.

Then back off. Don’t be a control freak. Your family has moved on, they’re grown up adults and I’m sure they can figure it out on their own. You don’t need to solve anything for them - when and if they need your help, I’m sure they will ask you.

Focus on yourself and your husband. There is no need to share every tid bit about your life with your family either. Over sharing with relatives can cause problems as well and I don’t know what you’re sharing which leads to “I am told i changed and think of myself only” Khair, leave it. Enjoy these days, they will fly by fast.