hey i need help coz my mum wnts me 2 marry her cuzin n my dad doesn’t. n my dad sed dt he’s gna split up wid ma mum coz she’s bieng very stubborn. whos side shud i be on. shud i liv wid ma dad or liv wid my mum n den marry her cuzin.. ??? n plus i reall ylyk a noda guy am nt sure if my family will approve of him.. sum1 help me plzzzz 
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marry the 1 u like, time for u to be stubborn, don't back down, that way ure parents will be mad at u for a bit and ure dad will forget about ure moms stubborness and u don't gotta worry about them breaking up..............
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Do you wanna marry your mom's cousin? What is the reason that your father will not let you marry him? Why is your mom being stubborn? And the guy you like, why do you think ure family will not approve? Because he's different ethnicity/caste/outside of family, or simply because you found him on your own?
Like chacha said, marry the one u love n be stubborn too.. ;)
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Sounds like a lose-lose situation.
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Like chacha said, marry the one u love n be stubborn too.. ;)
i dn't wna marry him.. he iz nice n he luvs me bt dunno y jst dn't wna marry him.. dad doesn't wnt me 2 marry him coz he doesn't work n my dad sed dt my daughter is too precious..dn't knw da real reason tho. My mums being stubborn coz it was my nan's last wish dt i marry dis guy. i dn't think my family will approve of him coz he a different caste. im confused coz i dn;t wna hurt my family . :(
n plus mum wnts me 2 get married when am 17 n dad doesn't.
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dang..
I say go with ur dad then..he seems to have more care for your best interest than your mother does, sorry to say. your mother is basing it all on what her mother wanted, shes' not looking at what YOU want. Children should be the parents priority and they have no right to compromise their life andhappiness for somethng thier relatives or parents might have wanted (If its not what hte kid wants as well).
Forget about that other guy for now.. ure not even 17 , you don't need to think about marriage.
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so shud i just 4get abt my mum?? n if my dad moves out do u think i shud move out wid him??? 
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Going only by what you've told us, he seems to haveyour best interests in mind.
Your mom's being very emotional.
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Sometimes parents just don't know best. When you can tell what they are asking of you is wrong, it's very difficult to stand up for what you feel is right, but it's important. I know a lot of parents who have actually regretted their child's obedience.
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I agree with your dad.....dont get married to your moms cousin...it will just cause problems later on. tell your mom u dont wanna marry her cousin....and you be stubborn about it too. you would have to spend the rest of your life with this guy.....dont make a decision you will later regret.
if you dont get married to ur moms cousin....it could save ur parents marriage too....dont do something your father doesnt want....dont even think about marriage at this age....you're too young. give it a few more years.
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k thnx 4 da advice 
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Simple, don't get married, or put it off for a while. And if ur dad is ready to get a divorce over this, maybe u shud find them sum help first.
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Ok you said in the other thread that youv been seeing the guy...that puts a different spin on things...if you've been talking to the guy is your mum actually clear about the fact that you dont want to marry him?...
If you havent been clear then be clear...she should be the parent and look after your interests first...its your life remember that...so tell her you dont want to get married...it could be worse...both your parents could be pushing this on you but atleast your dads on your side...
You shouldnt have to choose between parents...just be clear and hope that your mum drops it...id like to think that she wouldnt risk her husband and daughter for her cousin...if you and your dad are adamant your mum should back down...if not then choose dad cos hes got your best interests at heart...
And girl your only 16...grow a little...forget about marriage...