Re: Help me out? Marriage between First cousins.
If you don’t want a job then don’t marry someone you will probably have to support for a while once he gets here. The custom of marriage between first cousins is now less prevalent than before esp. in cities. There is a risk of genetic diseases in kids too in case of cousin marriages.
BTW if you are super Americanized, then this guy who seems very sharp does not seem to be the guy for you.