If your husband is giving money to his mother to stay there, he can give his money to another landlord and find a small place for you both to rent.
Your accomodation options are NOT limited to either stay with his family or your family. As far as I am aware, rental accomodation is alot more easily affordable in Pakistan than in western countries, as in most of the salary is not spent on rent.
Find somewhere else to live within your means.
i agree ... but rent i also know is not so less either because the earning capacity per head is not as high as in western countries ... i don't know what your husband earns rida ... but i do know when a starter (professional bachelor's holder) begins with a job, he/she starts between 18000 and 25000 ... and the rent is crazy high when coupled with utility bills and etc.
where do you live btw, what city? rents are also of course quite varied according to where you live.