I wanted to ask something for a friend of mine. She is a victim of huge gossips. She doesn’t know how to handle them. People are always looking for mistakes in her, looking for anythign to see if the gossips are true or not. Every thing she does, is always watched with suspicious eyes. If she goes someplace, she’s in trouble, new gossips, if she doesn’t go anywhere, still gossips…
Terrible unimaginable bad gossips! She doesn’t know what to do anymore. I keep telling her to hold on, be strong, and it will go away, it will pass with time. But sometimes the gossip is hurtful.
She doesn’t understand where it comes from, wether family is trying to ruin her, or what…
She’s often praying: ja hajoe ja kajoem, bi rahmatika astaghies
and ienie maghloeboen fantasier.
Is there anything else someone knows she could pray? What should she do? She does know who is gossiping. But she doesn’t know the source!
Becuase it’s mainly lies, the thought has occured to her that they are western people, that she is being discriminated by them. On the other hand, the gossips go everywhere, in all circles, and she is uncertain what to do about it.