I am a very sensitive person, things like warewells or seeing offs often bring a waterfall of tears into my eyes. The environment around me is somewhat stressful and i sometimes loose my nerves and slide into a depression and cry alot. What can i do to remain happy… pregnancy has made me even (much) more sensitive. What things should i avoid or ignore (besides backbitting about me 
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Yehi mera hashar hoyga
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I am in the same boat dear, whats worng with the mood, any thing happend badly or what?? try to imagine your future with a baby. Start shopping for your baby may be keep your mood happy.
I always saw dreams of shopping for baby but my hubby said no not right now wait till next month, will have long weekend and you will do shopping, thats make me cheerful. Now a days I feel depression and want to talk to someone :( .
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nothing bad… just a bunch of mean ppl who hate me and backbite and wrong talking and the fact that i have 2 live without my parents coz im married since january 
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Snickers, it means you are new here. Where you live? I am in Michigan.
When I was here three years before I also felt like that but right now I am adjusted upto the environment.
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Going back 2 pakistan next week… parents live in europe… so very far away 
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ooh my dear 
I am very very sensitive person too, and the most helpfull to me is to talk, talk …and talk:D as phone is rather expensive try to cat on the net with your family, use webcam maybe:) …
I was in very bad nervous situation this morning i almost cry twice in the train when going to school:D …but i hold back my tears and thought about other stuff and relaxed with some friends at the end of the day…going out and meeting people is really important…if you can’t: internet can help:blush: and gupshup also can help, destress on cafe…have fun to forget the pain…
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SNICKERS! I HAVE SERIOUSLY HAD IT WITH YOU COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR IN-LAWS BACKBITING AND HATING ON YOU!!! get some respect right now!!!you have a brain and a mouth, use it to get how you feel across…go up to these people and if u cant smack them in the face atleast make it a point to say equally nasty stuff to them.
if YOU dont respect yourself, NOBODY else will. For once, act bitchy with them instead of asking “Oh whyyyy does it always happen to me !!!”
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i can suggest some zoloft and prozac :D
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get a punching bag and punch it whenever ure angry 
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its common to get stressed in life. I am sure everyone one of us have had these little patches in our lifes. What is important is to keep yourself in confidence that what you are doing is correct. Forget about what ppl say (hard thing to do but doable) .. u have to make sacrifices to make yourself happy. If your inLaws bother you.. learn to ignore them.. learn to stand up to your hubby and tell him what is bothering you..
baki.. its all person to person so can't really push you to do anything you don't like..
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If there are things or relationships in your life that can be improved then work on improving them. In the long run it'll make your life and others happier. Other than that if there are circumstances you can't control then try to get yourself out of them. You are the owner of your life and you determine what happens to you. I hope you pray and ask Allah to guide you. But know that you have every right to feel emotional but don't let yourself be a victim. Find solutions.
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thnx ppl, i will try 2 be strong and confident and i will talk 2 all the people concerned. I was never an undercondident person before wese, now i'll try 2 be like before and show them that im not a coward.
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snickers think of it from this view- Those who are back bitting or stabbing arent really your true friends. Why bother wasting your precious tears for those.
i take it in a good way 
hey i am getting popular i can care less if some aunties or girls talk about me. Hey they got nothing better to do but praise me as far as i am concern keep doing it.
I like being popular anyways and getting attention is a good thing 
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Snickers: You are PREGNANT! All the changes you are experiencing are normal due to the hormonal change your body is going through.
For your baby's sake...be happy!!! How a mom feels does affect the baby.
As far as your inlaws are concerned. Look at it this way...Jo log logoon ki buraaii karte hain Allah Mian un ki burayeon mei izafa aur jin ki buraii ki jarahi hoti hai unki naikioon mei izafa. So, do you understand what i am saying. Keep your cool and let them say whatever they want. In the end Allah will be the judge of all. Be happy with your hubby and try to keep yourself busy and ignore them as much as possible. See, your inlaws know your weakness....they know you get upset easily and they try to take advantage of that. Show them that sticks and stones may break your bones but words will never hurt you:)