Thank you so much to everyone for their duas. I am praying that inshallah everything goes ok whenever the bypass is going to be arranged for and he gets well inshallah very soon. I know i shouldnt stress for the sake of the baby but its just not possible. For the past recent months, alot has happened and my mind is everywhere. Emotionally, mentally and physically i am totally drained. Sometimes, i have been so stupid that i keep thinking i wasnt alive - May Allah forgive me for thinking like this.
Tabu - after reading your post, i did smile. I appreciated that alot. Thank you! I am a very sensitive person and can easily get emotional and i keep praying that i can have strength to deal with this in the coming weeks inshallah.
Dildarani - Thank you for the hugs and duas. Much appreciated! I am sorry to hear that your dad went through the same op and pray to Allah that he is feeling much better now. You are right, all we can at that time and at present is to keep praying and Inshallah everything will be ok. Regarding asking siblings/relatives for aftercare, i live away from them. Its a 2 hour journey however, when the time of the op comes, i will probably go home for a few weeks and be there with mum and visit him. Younger bro and sis are working and studying so they are only available in the evening. Inshallah we are here for him. Its just me getting worked up alot and stressing! I know its not good for me but everything is happening at the same time, you know?
All i can do is pray and pray and ask Allah to make everything easy for all of us Inshallah.
Midnights - Ameen and thank you. May Allah give all our parents long and happy life - Ameen. Hope you are ok?
Icon - Thank you for explaining the procedure.
Niksik - thank you for the kind words of re-assurance. Inshallah everything will be ok. As i said above, i am leaving work in couple of weeks inshallah and when the time comes for the op, I will probable go home ang help out. Alhumdullilah, i have got energy in my pregnancy so i will help out asap. I just cant wait for all these difficult times to be over and back to normal business. Inshallah soon and he will have his 1s grandchild to play with.
Gr8heera - thank you for the reply. I know my guppies are here for me always that i always come here for some words of advice and support. Btw, i dont know if i am having a boy or girl - i just pray to Allah that its healthy and inshallah everything goes ok in the final days.
Diwana and Teggy - thank you for the detailed info. Appreciated!
Inshallah everything will be ok but i just cant help worrying. Even my hubby says i worry so much but thats just me you know. When you are living away from your loved ones, you tend to worry too much but i am assuring my parent as much as possible. Parents can be very stubborn. Mum and dad are not on talking terms at the moment but it happens between all the adults and they make up in the end.
Thank you to all for support and advice. I really really appreciate it.