What would your reaction be ladies?
why does he want a second wife if he loves you.
My reaction would be to dump his a**. Words are meaningless and a lot of men are very good at spewing them in order to get what they want. Always look at his actions.
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We had Alley and we loved her, than we got this big black main coon he is a very bad billa but he is our billa and we love him also and don't love Alley any lesser. No one relationship is like other. You have to look in your heart for the answer. My first wife was completely unappreciative, would degrade me and than this most beautiful young entrepreneur lady came along, loved me to pieces and does not care if I am already married. Although I am intimate with one but in Nikah with 2. Strangely, I love my first one still even though she tried to destroy me and kicked me out of my own house.
Distract him with a billi. Y’know something that will sit on his lap and cuddle with him and purrrrr when stroked, but that is also not a woman. Usi se kaam chala le for now.
It worked for the Baabz. His billi is called Sam. She appreciate him by doing the purrrr purrrr and she no do any zabaan darazi and chappal baazi like first wife.
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Time and time again it has been demonstrated that we are built differently. It IS possible for a man to genuinely love more than 1 woman at a time, without feeling like you are taking away or cheating. Women, on the other hand are different creatures altogather.
I know this is bait but what the hell. 
Only a man can truly love another man. Find someone like homesick who will be so full of your love it starts to hurt but you want moar. 
LOL. Im taken. Not sure what you meant by " only a man can truly lover another man" All I meant is that it may be difficult for females to comprehend, but it is possible for a man to love more than 1 woman at the same time and not feel like he is cheating or guilty otherwise. i.e 2 wives..no guilt. For women, on the other hand, it is unatural and conflicting to be in the same situation. The reasons for this are manifold and I wouldnt want to get into that here.
I mean, yes, I'm not surprised you are taken homesick. Does your husband have another wife?
Im male so having a husband would be let say… unnatural.
Husbands are not found in nature - so no more unnatural than any other case, brother homesick.
Maybe he found one and is finding a way to tell you
men tends to do things first and tell later i think
Man you must on some real good hasish talking all that none sense. Your gibberish is embarassing to read through. I was taking about scientific studies and evolutuonary biology, and you are talking to me about anecdotes of Africa and having millionaire friends lol. Turn off the paki soap opras and read a book or two to educate yourself and so you dont embarras yourself sounding like 3rd grade drop out. Apparantly the cooed school you went to was a whore house where they also give classes. lol
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This is not Paki soap opera and real life is more relevant than books, My eldest was dating this Pak girl from NY and told me that this girl had been with dozens of men. Millionaires dont impress me my focus is on health and relationships. Harris the youngest told me that most of girls in his high school have 20 plus body counts. I have had many relationships in life, with girls from all ethnicities and all faiths, believe me girls do enjoy physical relationship.
I posted the twitter link and you can read responses by dozens of Pak women. Recent studies are showung that amongst younger age group more women are cheating, perhaps because of societal pressures women chose to stay faithful despite being dissatisfied.
This bogus science claim about men are built for more than one women BS is the misogynist coolaide they have fed you. If you want science most men cant even handle one woman physically, if they were meant to than why do they not have the means to?
Also most girls schools and colleges were like that, dozens of cars lined up outside schools and colleges, most of those ladies are now married and have great families and I am sure their that is the coolaid they are all drinking. I hear Tinder is doing very well in SE Asia.
Interesting. So yeah. I went to high school in NYC and had quite a healthy social circle. Most girls in high school do not have a 20 person body count lol. Sounds like you guys are watching too many movies. Yes pretty much everyone dates in high school with some relationnships being more steady than others. Some even last the entire 4 years, meanwhile the avg can be from 3 to 5 different people in 4 yearan Every girl having slept with 20 or more boys tells me you or your son are watching too much fantasy movies, maybe the adult rated kind? What twitter are you talking about? Do i need twitter to know that women have sexual urges, including Paki women? Lol. Sounds like you just want to rant and scream with no substance to backup your rants. You are just a child in the body of an adult having a tantrum. According to you, the world is full of orgies and all women are sleeping with mutiple men. You live in whatever fantasy land you want. There has always been a minority of men and women is society that are sexualy adventrous and promiscuous. Nothing new or groud breaking about that. So not sure what you are on about most girls in high school sleeping with 20 men, and all girls in middle school in Pak getting picked up by middle aged men. Are you sure are not a teenager describing your fantasies?
Was it 20 years ago that you went to high school? things here change at a very fast pace, I think there is a generation gap between the eldest at 23 and youngest at 18, there groups are completely different. Did they not teach to not make assumptions in school? My boys are extremely mature and are international athletes who have travelled to international competitions and rubbed shoulders with world champions. That blog was written by a pakistani girl, Zahra Haider and dozens of Pak girls corroborated it on twitter. Are you saying she made it up? Most of my wifes nephews had very dry youth so I understand where you are coming from. Not all young men are popular or know how to socialise with women. With the unrealistic expectations the top guys have many partners and average have zilch as all these ladies waNT THE TOP.
Homesick, you are dealing with a gira hua banda who loves to share the private details of the girls his own sons are dating. Doing so makes him feel like an enlightened and progressive dad.
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Listen bro you have no.idea what you are talking about. In my high school there were Paki girls who dated and there were pak girls who just hung out with guy friends but nothing sexual/ romantic. There were also girls who neither dated or mixed with boys outside of pedantic necessatities. Of the girls who dated, some were more physicaly liberal than others. So contrary to your beleif and fanatasies there is always going to be spectrum upon which different individuals chose to operate. There isnt a 20 plus orgy going on in all the high school bathrooms. Middle school girl in Pakistan are generally not sleeping with middle aged men being picked up after school. Middle schook girls in US are generally not being picked up by middle aged men and sleeping with them. I m keenly aware of what goes on today in High schools, and its 1/20 of what you are desceibing. Most of it is your own sick fantasies. At the end you will find that what you seek. Its like the story of 2 men who visited a new city. One came back and said the city is full of pious and well.mannered people who are good hosts. There are so many mosques and scholars to learn from. The other man says about the same city that its full of whores and brothels. Alcohol is easy to access and people are fornicating as they please. Both men found in the same city that which they were looking for. What are you looking for?
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Yeah
I really dont see what he is trying to communicate.