He has no time for me.

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Re: He has no time for me.

@newbee13

Me and my fiancé have studied together in a levels and later chose the same career although we were never in the same institution. He started working in October mid and shortly after that problems started. He obviously started giving me less time which is ok, but the time he gave slowly became minimal.. He would play this computer networking game on weekend and also play cricket in the company team so that left no time for me. I kept complaining over it and We did have happy days and days when things were perfect however, since last 2 months we haven’t really spent much alone time.. we don’t go on dinners or casual meetings and if we ever go out for coffee his mother sends his little sister with us .. shes 7 and very talkative. I don’t mind her presence except she talks too much and since im busy in my work (I have a business) I hardly have any time so I want it with him.. His mother occasionally sent her with us before but now its a bit more (probably cause we go out less). so since 2 months my only visits are to his house when I see his mother and see him too … anyway two weekends before we made a plan to see movie on last Saturday.. and he couldn’t make it cause of his cricket. I was naturally upset as I was making the plan since 1 week. I was ok but it made me angry that he wasn’t sorry about it and didn’t want to reschedule it. I spoke to him about it and he causally told me we wil go. anyway 2 days later he went out with his mom and friend of his mother whose like 5 years older then him.. I got very upset because of this as he was tired to see me but was not tired to go out with them. I decided to not talk stop talking. he called me the next day and told me to go for the movie. I told him im busy for next two days. ( I wanted him to know what rejection feels like since hes always busy for me). and its been 5 days we have been talking barely on texts. like hi how are you only. today we decided to put thigns behind us when he told me that it wasn’t a big deal that hes not been meeting me and doesn’t agree that he spends more time with his buddies. I got really upset and said bad things.. he told me he doesn’t wanna talk to me.. What do you suggest I do? How do I gain importance in his life again? P.S I’m always adjusting my plans according to his needs and I want him to make an effort too cause I don’t feel loved by him. he only needs me when his buddies are busy.. Please reply. im very depressed.

Don’t get married. You sound like those over obsessive girlfriends on 9gag.