he does not respond? how to determine

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if he is seriously interested to commit, because no self respecting young woman, will waste her time or gain bad reputation by just sitting and waiting or looking up to a male… who just isn’t straight forward, either way?

all this time, i did find out that men won’t burn their SHIPS! They let a woman down as in ignored and dumped, before she does that to them… so that they can have a 2nd coming, a just in case.

how, ohmigod, coward and sleezy is that?

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Confront him and ask.

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Dushwar *Hugs...... I so know what you mean.

Confront him, make it clear to him taht if he doesn't want to commit then he should take a hike. There should be no ifs and buts.

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Dushwari, responsibility lies on the female too. Most of the time, the signs are there. Either you can see them or choose to ignore them. A lot of girls ignore the signs that are there and hope for the best instead of facing facts.

If you know he won't commit, then walk away.

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I agree

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This is a very good point. Let me add more good-ness to it.

If a guy makes it clear he is not interested in a long term relay with you, please don't think you can change him.

Avoid the following:

nahin nahin, maira piyaar us ko badal day gaa

wo mujh sai shaadi karai ga kiyon kai maiN us say BHOT piyar karti hoon

Piyaree bachee'yoon,

Life is not a bolly flick. There are no musicians hiding in the bushes playing sitar and tabla while you do your song & dance in the park. A 'no' means a 'no'. Be upfront about HIS expectations and YOURs. If they are not compatible, move on.

There are 6 BILLION people on this planet. There is someone for everyone.

edit: some of us like to think there is more than one person for us. Jazaak allah khairun. :D

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Read "He's Just Not That Into You."

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link it please :hug:

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Thanks for the link Saima.

Every man should own ALL three books. They are a great reference for developing counter-tactics & strategies.

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jazaak allah khairun

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any man who does not propose is no worth of compromising :wink:
any man who does, call and email you everyday…more than once a day…is no worth of compromising;)
any man who does not say i love u at least ten times a day…is no worth of compromising :rotfl:…

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i agree^

You have to ask him what does he want out of this relationship. Then take it from there.

Guess the Guppan (2)
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Dushwari, didnt u just end a relationsship not that long ago. Is this the same guy or are u talking abt a new guy?

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never sit and wait. Whatever you do, just dont do that. Sounds for girls AND guys.

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tum sey mutbal!!!

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I really want to say something but undoubtfully that will harm this case even more. So I wont.

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^ pray tell.

Guppans only tell their side of the story and we, people of fairness and justice, never hear the other side.

Most of the time, good people are villified/demonized for no reason. tsk tsk.

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either he loves you, either he doesn’t, whats so confusing? :confused:

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He doesn't like you, move on

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ehm huh? :confused: