Re: He did not call me :
I can understand you being disappointed that he didn’t call to see how your exams went…but WORK can get pretty busy. He’s just your “honay wala” fiance…(he’s not even your fiance yet)…and you’re upset that he failed to call. Jab k…I am SO busy at work that I don’t have time to call or receive the calls of my own mother and sister. So, yes, I feel you were unreasonable.
The difference here is that fiance ka ignore karna was not on purpose. Us ne jaan booj k tumhay ignore nahin kiya…woh busy tha. LEKIN TUM ne ussay jaan booj kar ignore kiya tha. You ignored his 10-15 calls on purpose. So, you are the more guilty party here. He’s done with school…he works…he probably has a ton of responsibilities…it’s natural for him to forget the exact date and time that exam results come out. To be honest, as a girl, that’s something that even I might forget (date of results).
“How should I show my anger to him?” Yeh, kaisa sawal hai? It’s an immature question. He forgot your result dates…he didn’t forget your wedding anniversary. At least he cared enough about your feelings to call you several times afterward. In this situation, you shouldn’t be showing your anger, and you shouldn’t be trying to find out ways to display your anger. Instead, be mature and flexible. Samajhne ki koshish karo that he’s busy. And appreciate the fact that he tried getting back in touch with you several times…some guys would have been really offended that they are being ignored after so many calls…and they may have developed a grudge or ended the relationship. That said, move on from your issues (yes, your issue, that you created for yourself) and behave normally (and even pleasantly) with him.