salam
I have recievd my A-level results today, and i have been waiting for my (honay waly fiance :D) to call and ask how i did BUT HE DID NOT EVEN TXT ME
I sent him a txt in the evening saying u didn’t even bother to ask blah blah… he then called me 4-5 times but i did not pick up (koz i was really mad at him)…after getting 10-15 calls i picked up and on asking why he did not txt me or call me to ask how i did… he said he was very busy at work today and he didn’t get a chance at all and he apologised to me for more than 5 times)
Likin mai abi b us say naraz ho i mean couldn’t he just sent me SINGLE txt…come on how long does it take to write HOW DID U DO?
Kaya mera naraz hona galat hy?
How should i show my anger to him?
Please post ur comments on this!
If you love him, really love him then erm it shouldn’t matter, toughen up and accept his calls, maybe he WAS really busy and wanted to call but couldn’t :halo:
The guy should have phoned DEFINITELY. But he didn’t, maybe HE REALLY COULDN’T, so instead of his fiancée BELIEVING HIM, you’re asking her to doubt him and teach him ‘lessons’ on frivolous things? :halo:
Right. Very good advice. I hope you apply it your life too!
Well ya that too. BUT i can understand why you are upset but i say just let him know clearly that such things really affect you and that he better make a note of it with a permanent marker.
There is a right way of letting people know about things you are really touchy about, you dont necessairly have to fight and show tanturums to do the same.
ishi if u want him to repeat it in future too phr maaf kerdai .. then ye phir daily ka drama ho ga … if u want ka this once/for all /last time then teach him a wonderful lesson tht he will remember u forever … :halo:
Kaya mera naraz hona galat hy?
How should i show my anger to him?
Please post ur comments on this!
I can understand you being disappointed that he didn't call to see how your exams went............but WORK can get pretty busy. He's just your "honay wala" fiance.......(he's not even your fiance yet).......and you're upset that he failed to call. Jab k.....I am SO busy at work that I don't have time to call or receive the calls of my own mother and sister. So, yes, I feel you were unreasonable.
The difference here is that fiance ka ignore karna was not on purpose. Us ne jaan booj k tumhay ignore nahin kiya.....woh busy tha. LEKIN TUM ne ussay jaan booj kar ignore kiya tha. You ignored his 10-15 calls on purpose. So, you are the more guilty party here. He's done with school.....he works......he probably has a ton of responsibilities......it's natural for him to forget the exact date and time that exam results come out. To be honest, as a girl, that's something that even I might forget (date of results).
"How should I show my anger to him?" Yeh, kaisa sawal hai? It's an immature question. He forgot your result dates.....he didn't forget your wedding anniversary. At least he cared enough about your feelings to call you several times afterward. In this situation, you shouldn't be showing your anger, and you shouldn't be trying to find out ways to display your anger. Instead, be mature and flexible. Samajhne ki koshish karo that he's busy. And appreciate the fact that he tried getting back in touch with you several times.........some guys would have been really offended that they are being ignored after so many calls...and they may have developed a grudge or ended the relationship. That said, move on from your issues (yes, your issue, that you created for yourself) and behave normally (and even pleasantly) with him.
Yes. Because his failure to call you was not deliberate. Your failure to pick up is deliberate. He simply forgot........but you're being mean (ignoring) on purpose. Continue ignoring his calls.......maybe he'll realize that you're being petty.......and then he'll end the relationship with you. It was a little baat....you made the bhatangar out of it. If he still wants to pursue this rishta, consider yourself lucky. Cuz people only put up with attitude problems for so long.
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