Re: He acts like he doesn’t care
I think you are in a very tricky situation. Over time a relationship should ideally improve as your understanding of each other improves and not deteriote. I’m sorry you are going through this. I have to say that long distance is very hard and it’s tough that you are not able to see each other very often. Therefore, hard to make a judgement as to what might going on in your fiance’s head. As far as my own experience with my husband goes, he definitely did not change after we got engaged and then married. But the engaged period was challenging for us as we were planning the wedding and there were some family issues going on at the same time. So planning the wedding was definitely a very stressful time but then things went back to normal after the wedding.
Sorry don’t have a lot of great advice for you except that your fiance should definitely not change into a different person after the engagement, that’s a red flag!
Our wedding is next summer iA, so preps haven’t yet begun. Lol I can’t imagine what we’ll be like when the times comes and everyone’s stressed about the wedding