Hazrat Aisha's age at marriage

One of my relative posted this link in FB, and he said he totally agreed with it, my point is how you can confirm old historical things in today’s times. :5:

Here is the article details and link.
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**IT is said that Hazrat Aisha was six years old when her nikah was performed with Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) in Makkah, and nine years old when she moved in to live with her husband in Madina after Hijra.**This piece of misinformation has led to the wrong view that child marriage has the sanction of Islam. It must be noted that establishing the authenticity of hadiths, the narrators’ circumstances and the conditions at that time have to be correlated with historical facts. There is only one hadith by Hisham which suggests the age of Hazrat Aisha as being nine when she came to live with her husband.Many authentic hadiths also show that Hisham’s narration is incongruous with several historical facts about the Prophet’s life, on which there is consensus. With reference to scholars such as Umar Ahmed Usmani, Hakim Niaz Ahmed and Habibur Rehman Kandhulvi, I would like to present some arguments in favour of the fact that Hazrat Aisha was at least 18 years old when her nikah was performed and at least 21 when she moved into the Prophet’s house to live with him.According to Umar Ahmed Usmani, in Surah Al-Nisa, it is said that the guardian of the orphans should keep testing them, until they reach the age of marriage, before returning their property (4:6). From this scholars have concluded that the Quran sets a minimum age of marriage which is at least puberty. Since the approval of the girl has a legal standing, she cannot be a minor.Hisham bin Urwah is the main narrator of this hadith. His life is divided into two periods: in 131A.H. the Madani period ended, and the Iraqi period started, when Hisham was 71 years old. Hafiz Zehbi has spoken about Hisham’s loss of memory in his later period. His students in Madina, Imam Malik and Imam Abu Hanifah, do not mention this hadith. Imam Malik and the people of Madina criticised him for his Iraqi hadiths.All the narrators of this hadith are Iraqis who had heard it from Hisham. Allama Kandhulvi says that the words spoken in connection with Hazrat Aisha’s age were tissa ashara, meaning 19, when Hisham only heard (or remembered), tissa, meaning nine. Maulana Usmani thinks this change was purposely and maliciously made later.Historian Ibn Ishaq in his Sirat Rasul Allah has given a list of the people who accepted Islam in the first year of the proclamation of Islam, in which Hazrat Aisha’s name is mentioned as Abu Bakr’s “little daughter Aisha”. If we accept Hisham’s calculations, she was not even born at that time.Some time after the death of the Prophet’s first wife, Hazrat Khadija, Khawla suggested to the Prophet that he get married again, to a bikrun, referring to Hazrat Aisha (Musnad Ahmed). In Arabic bikrun is used for an unmarried girl who has crossed the age of puberty and is of marriageable age. The word cannot be used for a six-year-old girl.Some scholars think that Hazrat Aisha was married off so early because in Arabia girls mature at an early age. But this was not a common custom of the Arabs at that time. According to Allama Kandhulvi, there is no such case on record either before or after Islam. Neither has this ever been promoted as a Sunnah of the Prophet. The Prophet married off his daughters Fatima at 21 and Ruquiyya at 23. Besides, Hazrat Abu Bakr, Aisha’s father, married off his eldest daughter Asma at the age of 26.Hazrat Aisha narrates that she was present on the battlefield at the Battle of Badar (Muslim). This leads one to conclude that Hazrat Aisha moved into the Prophet’s house in 1 A.H. But a nine-year-old could not have been taken on a rough and risky military mission.In 2 A.H, the Prophet refused to take boys of less than 15 years of age to the battle of Uhud. Would he have allowed a 10-year-old girl to accompany him? But Anas reported that he saw Aisha and Umme Sulaim carrying goatskins full of water and serving it to the soldiers (Bukhari). Umme Sulaim and Umme Ammara, the other women present at Uhud, were both strong, mature women whose duties were the lifting of the dead and injured, treating their wounds, carrying water in heavy goatskins, supplying ammunition and even taking up the sword.Hazrat Aisha used the kunniat, the title derived from the name of a child, of Umme Abdullah after her nephew and adopted son.
If she was six when her nikah was performed, she would have been only eight years his senior, hardly making him eligible for adoption. Also, a little girl could not have given up on ever having her own child and used an adopted child’s name for her kunniat.Hazrat Aisha’s nephew Urwah once remarked that he was not surprised about her amazing knowledge of Islamic law, poetry and history because she was the wife of the Prophet and the daughter of Abu Bakr. If she was eight when her father migrated, when did she learn poetry and history from him?There is consensus that Hazrat Aisha was 10 years younger than her elder sister Asma, whose age at the time of the hijrah, or migration to Madina, was about 28. It can be concluded that Hazrat Aisha was about 18 years old at migration. On her moving to the Prophet’s house, she was a young woman at 21. Hisham is the single narrator of the hadith whose authenticity is challenged, for it does not correlate with the many historical facts of the time.The writer is a scholar of the Quran and writes on contemporary issues.

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I agree there is inconsistency, but there is a different problem above ... If the criteria is puberty for marriage, then there is no reason why the age was not 9 years old. Many girls become pubescent at this age.

If the age of reason in maturity is compared against the the raising of children, 7 years of love, 7 years of discipline and 7 to befriend, then the minimum age would be 14 years, not straight at puberty.

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the article appears very weak at first glance
to be honest its a trash article written by a person of suspect iman !

btw the science of hadith is whats used to differentiate. it is a complete science.

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That article is just a cahoot of denial trying to appease ignorant people. Aisha was 9 when she got married to the Prophet, and anyway to put things into context she was engaged to someone else before marrying him. Child marriages were so normal then. My grandma got married at 12 years old, and that was 50 years ago!, so imagine if it was 1400 years! Does that mean my grandad was a pedophile? LOL

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From what I have heard of it, Aisha was married at 6 and then her marriage was consumated at 9. Now, I think a girl reaches puberty around 9 or is it 12? islamically, so how could Aisha say yes in an adult matter when islam clearly tells us that a woman's will is necessary for marriage? I believe the prophet said to a woman whose father had married her off that her marriage stood annulled if her assent wasn't given for it.

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deliberate!

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Peace UZ

The most detailed response is found here:

Our Mother A’isha’s Age At The Time Of Her Marriage to The Prophet

The question is started and throughout the text there are quotes and then responses they are hard to detect at first but you will see the flow of the answer as it comes out … Strange as it must seem to us … the age as reported by Hisham bin Urwah is the most solid report we have on the age of Aisha (RA) at marriage. As I said earlier there are inconsistencies - but these inconsistencies are minor in comparison to the reports that confirm this.

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Thanks everyone :)

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What Shardmany posted is exactly what I always think. What is there to apologize.

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There is absolutely no reason for us to try to deny or apologize for the marriage of Hadhrat Aisha (Radhiallahu anha) at this young age. The women of that time would mature much quicker, thus once she matured her marriage was consummated.
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This 10 minutes video might be very helpful in understanding this matter.

The Truth Mohammed (pbuh) marriage to Aisha (ra) - YouTube

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I am sure the video has great info - but dont you think that as a religious community, we are stuck in that past? I mean it happened 1500 years ago, why does it matter why and how it happened. I have not seen any other religion justifying their “oddities” as much as we do. Could it be because the doubt is actually in our heart and we want answers so keep justifying it like we are explaining others why it happened?

PS: I am not objecting to you on anything. Its just a thought that came to mind so sharing.

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Allah teaches us in Quran that when a news comes to you, do a research on it.

I will suggest that you actually hear what Yousuf Estes has to say on this subject before you pass any judgment on the contents of the video. May be the thought that came in your mind was a product of a pre-conceived notion of Muslims being apologetic on many siuch matters where they should in fact stand the ground firmly, right? :)

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BUt Allah also asks us not to do too much of research on the matters of deen.

I am not passing any judgment on the video at all.

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Allah asks us not to do too much of research on His commands in Quran (not on matters of deen) because we need to beleive in all of those as part of the faith instead of trying to find rationale about them.

For matters of deen, you do need to research on what are the ruling / command (ayah) / hadith that apply on any given matter?

You are definitely not passing any judgment on the video but your comments were directed in response to the video link I posted, right?

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Well said, but here is what I think. Prophet :saw2:, being the ultimate follower of Allah’s command, lived each and every second of his life after the age of 40, in agreement with Allah. When he married Aisha (whether she was 9 or 21), Prophet did it with agreement of Allah SWT. That makes it an unquestionable matter.

And no my response was not at all directed to anything in your post. I quoted you just to take the discussion forward from where you left.

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Point taken.

I have the same faith regarding Hazrat Aisha (RA) as you have; however, we need to understand the situation of that time and why it was not a wrong thing for us to explain non-muslims when they come with a question.

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makes sense to me. There are plenty of things narrated in hadeeth books that simply dont seem to make sense, and the age in this case being one.
people are welcome to accept everything in those books as authentic and the word of god, but it is not, and thus error prone. Especially in this case.