Re: Hawaiin theme bridal shower..
i threw a hawaiian birthday for the hubs a few years back- its a fun theme and really great for a bridal shower too.
we got lots of leis (flower haar’s, essentially) from the dollar store, the girls had flowers tucked behind one year, and everyone was in fun colors like white, pale blue, yellow, etc and wearing light summer clothes. lots of skirts.
you can get margarita glasses from the dollar store too and put whatever drink you want in them with a paper umbrella and a slice of lime. there’s lots of recipes for non-alkie drinks out there and you can make them in different bright colors.
if you want real flowers, orchids are perfect. you can float them in shallow bowls of water.
and of course, pick up some grass skirts too that girls can wear over their tights or jeans if they like- those are at the dollar store as well.
your menu sounds great! you can set the table with flowers on a brightly patterned table cloth.