Re: Having to leave Pakistan..
I think that for guys, the main issue in life (more so for girls) is getting a job we think is suitable for us - a man's job is much more a part of his identity than it is for a woman.
If he can get a job, he'll be on his way to happiness - having a job is a large part of a man's sense of self-worth. Conversely, not having a job will ultimately lead to misery.