omgosh im so sorry to hear all that. You will definately be in all my duas!!
PSsquare is right. If ur home all day looking over ur husband hes not going to have the same respect for u as he would if u were working at the same time.You need to have ur own time and space. Dont make ur life go around him.
inshallah everythign will be ok.
please dont cry...its gonna make u feel worse. Cheer up..i know its hard trust me i have close family relatives who kinda went thru a similar situation. Although, it seems liek ur lifes hell right now. its really not thank Allah for not putting you thru a more intense situation.
pray 2 rakat salatul hajjat at night and cry to Allah tell him to help you fix this situation. He is the one to make relationships Inshallah hes gonna help you save your marriage as well.
good luck and please try not to cry. Its going to make u feel worse
thnkx guys, for ur advise. itry to tryed to ask himquestion y is he acting like this, but he doesnt answer. i dont talk him now, and hès getting worser then this. plzzzzz any 1 if u have any dua/wazifa ,plzzz plzzzzz tell me , i dont noe wat to do to him. yesterday i cryed soooo much. b-cuz of him.
thnkx guys, for ur advise. itry to tryed to ask himquestion y is he acting like this, but he doesnt answer. i dont talk him now, and hès getting worser then this. plzzzzz any 1 if u have any dua/wazifa ,plzzz plzzzzz tell me , i dont noe wat to do to him. yesterday i cryed soooo much. b-cuz of him.
Do you know what a wazifa does? A wazifa, dua, etc (IMHO) appeals to Allah swt to give you strength to get through something. It doesnt solve the problem necessarily, that is upto you. He gives you the tools you need but you have to do the rest.
You wont be able to get through this if you keep asking him questions about his behaviour. He knows he is upsetting you, he isnt blind. So far, have any of your questions given you answers? No. So, change your method. Give him something to worry about. Stop being his toy, stop crying, stop waiting for him to change, stop thinking your life depends on him, etc. It doesnt. Women are going to the moon and you're crying over a guy?
Do you have friends? Do you have family? Where are they? Cant you get a job? Go to school? Volunteer somewhere?
Have you tried having a real conversation with him? Told him what it is exactly that you do not like? Every married couple will tell you that things aren't all lovey dovey all your life, after a while they change. Maybe try asking him why he is behaving that way?
I refuse to believe that you are completely innocent in this whole thing.
for u probely is, but its true. in life if this ever happen to u, u ll noe , how it feels. so i think u dont have a heart. ur not muslim ur saying this. b-cuz muslim people have hearts they could fill peoples filling. i hope u understand wat im telling u.
I feel sorry for you nlove143 and i appreciate your patience.Every relationship has ups and down and every relationship gets sweet when its based on friendship.Don,t cry or be sad every time.This will make your husband go away from you.By this i didnt mean that you are a victim who should give up but by this i mean you should be a serviver as a wife who win the heart of her husband again.Some time small things have big impact like if you cook the fav food of your husband or just bring him gifts you like or well just be beautiful for him,jut smile for him....make your relationship colorful again.....be good to peoples who are near to him like his parents siblings close relatives etc etc......don,t expect any thing bad from him or from your self or from your Allah....have good faith....I for my problem always read Darood Sharif .Inshallah Allah will help you and in no case become hopless....don,t let your mind wender around and think about the bad or sad things...any thing which make you sad ...don,t think about it......just let go your fears.Dont talk with your husband about worries all the times....there are many other things which you and your husband can talk about like there can be many things which interest you both...and will not bring any thing sad between you two.You just do your part and for the rest trust Allah.....after every darkness there is always light..
I always knew you were smart!