Dump his sorry ass
That is soo easy to say but no one realizes how hard "dumping" can be. In Islam and def. in the Pakistani culture there is no dumping. Most girls have to suck it up and be with their husbands for their families sake. This means so that the family is not badnaamed, the girl continues to be with her husband no matter what because she does not want to bring shame to her family. Of course when it comes to abuse then the girl must take her life seriously and then and only then give up her marriage to save herself. Abuse meaning not just light tapping or anything but actual hitting sad to say. I know the girl shopuld divorce if its bigb life threatning reason but do know that in the Pakistani/Indian culture people talk. A girl in my mosque got divorced and the whole mosque looked down on her and thought less of her. Who knows what really happened but my Mom does. She is very good friends with the guys parents who told her what the girl did. I won;t even start about that. Anyways, see the thing is, in Islam a girl cannot divorce becaase of small matters. She must suck it up and try it out. Soon enough she finds out the first year of marriage was hard and from then on its going to be okay. Not romantic or lovey dovey but okay. I used to think it was so hard and wantyed to quit but stuck it out and its not so bad. I know a girl whose huisband acted like this ones and now after three years of marriage they have been on a few vacations and he treats her much better.