Having kids

[gudiaali]

so i want to know who gets to decide on having kids, when to have them and how many.
Do you and your partner both discussed it and then mutually decided or you both discussed but ultimately one spouse got an upper hand in deciding or you really don’t bother and left it all on your spouse to decide.

[Bobby1]

Re: Having kids

@gudiaali

so i want to know who gets to decide on having kids, when to have them and how many.
Do you and your partner both discussed it and then mutually decided or you both discussed but ultimately one spouse got an upper hand in deciding or you really don’t bother and left it all on your spouse to decide.

Haha..funny we were just discussing this, my friend the GM of the company came to visit us on our site, he is looking to build a house for himself and his lovely pregnant wife. I vividly remember him saying on several occasions that he is never going to have children and if any woman got pregnant with his baby he will divorce her. My lovely friend Jessica who despite being one of the best-looking girls I know as she is a cross bw Indonesian and white, and she despite all that is very insecure got pregnant without her trashy white bf knowing to convince him to marry her. People should decide before marrying about children. My friend’s daughters life got destroyed because of this, she comes from an insanely wealthy background and is gorgeous and educated and married this white trash Bosnian who refused to have children and she divorced him after 10 yrs.

[Mademoiselle]

Re: Having kids

^ Bobby ji, you have very interesting friends and family members.

[Bobby1]

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@Mademoiselle

^ Bobby ji, you have very interesting friends and family members.

We have a really large family, my work involves in dealing with people so I get to meet all sorts of people. I am also naturally very social and people warm up to me and open up about everything.

[Silaaj]

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Man proposes, God disposes.
This is one of those issues where you can decide when to try, but cant decide when you will have kids. Its common to see people who ‘decide’ to wait a couple of years after marriage, and God ‘decides’ to keep them childless for another couple of years after the first couple of years:)

[stylobabe]

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@Silaaj

Man proposes, God disposes.
This is one of those issues where you can decide when to try, but cant decide when you will have kids. Its common to see people who ‘decide’ to wait a couple of years after marriage, and God ‘decides’ to keep them childless for another couple of years after the first couple of years:)

I have actually seen this happening to couples they PLAN to have some good time n then feel upset when they are unable to have kids…anyhow in my case it was a mutual decision…atleast we have same opinion about kids…

[Cunctator]

Re: Having kids

@Silaaj

Man proposes, God disposes.
This is one of those issues where you can decide when to try, but cant decide when you will have kids. Its common to see people who ‘decide’ to wait a couple of years after marriage, and God ‘decides’ to keep them childless for another couple of years after the first couple of years:)

absolutely true…