Re: Having kids
losing a baby is such a traumatic experience, no wonder she's hesitant to try for a 4th one! as much as she might be feeling the pressure to have a son, if she's isn't healthy herself, she's going to put strain on both of them. i think you should be honest and share your POV with her niks, but also let her know that its her decision ultimately and while you may not think it the wisest, as her friend, you will support her unequivocally regardless of her decision. i think its the best, and pretty much only thing, you can do in this situation.