having friends of opposite gender after being committed/married

[pak2015]

Re: having friends of opposite gender after being committed/married

@htmwrites

Lol, that’s all you picked up from the entire thing? But yes, you are right. Even if it is platonic from one side, doesn’t necessarily mean it has to be from the other side too. Which is why i stated i would be willing to “evaluate”. If anything, the former part of my statement very clearly mentions how i don’t like this form of interaction. If i can stay within my limits, why can’t he? After marriage, it should be me and him, not a third wheel.

Btw, what is your personal take on all this?

yup, the rest of the post was about you so can’t comment on that

yeah i don’t think guy or girl can TRULY be platonic over a long period of time, it may start off platonic but at some point as the friendship advances, one of the people do develop feelings for the other person.