having friends of opposite gender after being committed/married

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Re: having friends of opposite gender after being committed/married

@pak2015

you really think most guy and girls can strictly keep it platonic without at least one of the persons not falling for the other? by definition being friends with someone is being close to the person, and when people of opposite sex become close, a form of intimacy is created by definition and it often leads to one or the other having feelings for the other, even if they don’t act on those feelings

Lol, that’s all you picked up from the entire thing? But yes, you are right. Even if it is platonic from one side, doesn’t necessarily mean it has to be from the other side too. Which is why i stated i would be willing to “evaluate”. If anything, the former part of my statement very clearly mentions how i don’t like this form of interaction. If i can stay within my limits, why can’t he? After marriage, it should be me and him, not a third wheel.

Btw, what is your personal take on all this?