_MuNiYa
November 10, 2004, 2:18pm
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its overrated..
shobig
October 2, 2005, 9:13am
42
Re: Having bath together..
احفطوا فروجكم إلا من زوجاتكم أو ما ملكت ايمانكمAgain confusing!!! who are those who your right hand possess ?? If Ayesha (Umm Almomeneen) can accept her husband marrying 6 wives then why our women these days dont let their husband marry another woman. that means they approve of their spouses flirt or have secret affairs but no legal marriage.
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About the nakedness, I was searching and found this.
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The Bathing of Husband and Wife together
It is permissible for the husband and wife to bath together in the same place even though he sees her private parts, and she sees his. This is established by a number of authentic hadîth , among them:
1.. On the authority of 'آ’ishah (radiAllâhu anha) who said:
"I used to bathe with the Prophet from a single container of water which was placed between us such that our hands collided inside it. He used to race me such that I would say: `Leave some for me, leave some for me!' She added: `We were in a state of Janaba (i.e. the state of having slept together).'"[Al-Bukharî and Muslim].
2.. On the authority of Mu’âwiya ibn Haida, who said:
"I said: `O Messenger of Allâh, which of our nakedness is allowed, and of which must we beware?' The Prophet answered, "Guard your nakedness except from your wife or those whom your right hand possesses." (So it is permissible for both spouses to look at and touch the body of his or her companion even the private parts). He said: `O Messenger of Allâh, what about if the relatives live together with each other?' The Prophet answered : "If you can make sure that no one ever sees your nakedness, then do so." He said: `O Messenger of Allâh, what about when one is alone?' The Prophet said: "Allâh is more deserving of your modesty than are the people"."[Ahmad, Abu Dawûd, at-Tirmidhî and others: Sahîh].