Re: Having a lot of issues with my BHAI
Ummm no. You didn’t ask for or need anyone’s permission to leave the house at midnight to go back to campus; and your parents and brother didn’t chase after you either when you ignored them for 2 weeks.
There is nothing to “allow” when it comes to you moving out. You’re 24, educated with a job. You can choose to take control of your own life and not put up being disrespected. But if you’re not willing to put down your foot and move out, regardless of what your parents/bhai think…then you’re choosing to stay in the current situation and yes, in that case, your only option is to shut up and put up with it until your wedding day.