Re: Having a lot of issues with my BHAI
Do your parents want you to leave your job? Why are they not saying anything at all in your defence? If he keeps going just ignore him all together. You really cant do much if no one is listening , I doubt your brother will see your point of view, if he is not willing to. People with a “heart of gold”, have a heart of gold with everyone, that’s what it usually means to have a heart of gold that your good to everyone. If he is not understanding there is not much you can do to help him become understanding. Apart from trying to explain your point with respect, you arguing probably only makes him more angry. Maybe he is jealous that you have achieved a lot more? Maybe somehow he should be convinced to go back to uni or something so he is not so insecure with the progress of others? His own sister. I get its a mentality but obviously your parents had no objection with you living on campus( something most desi,conservative parents would frown upon) and then working. If you cant leave and no one is willing to listen, you will unfortunately have to just deal with it.
I don’t know…my dad basically handed my brother his career but with me my parents are adamant I finish uni and get somewhere on my own.