having a crush

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You should...what other foods do you have crushes on?

Edible and Halal is usually enough for my crush :slight_smile: … Food I mean :smack:

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Nomi ke bachey! Marungi!

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^^ :rotfl:

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this thread is so cute! even though i dont have a crush right now it reminds me of the times i have had crushes... brings back the memory of butterflies!!!!

A Lebanese guy.. I often see in Media City sigh he's funny AND intelligent AND a looker.. (rare combo indeed!)

dreamy

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read my signatures below… and you ll know :wub:

:woho:

keep enjoying such a cute crush

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i saw him today…he was on the phone :wub:. I was walking to the library and i was blatenly staring at him, then he turned around and saw me staring so i took out my phone and pretended to look busy, when i loooked up again he was gone! nahiiiiiiiiin :frowning:

Gina labanese men are HOT! you lucky girl.

Why does he keep disappearing on you Alvena? That’s what I’m curious about. I mean does he know you like him…and he’s not interested in you…therefore he runs away? OR…does he like you but is trying to control himself because he has a girlfriend and that’s why he runs away? (Although that’s immature, he can still behave normally). OR is that his way of trying to get your attention (perhaps he thinks running away from will peak your curiosity about him?). I know you’re not curious but I am.

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I have a crush too but mine is a bit different…i don’t know who it is! :snooty:

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I cant belive girls are having crushes. You are not allowed to like any other guy ever before the one of us who is gonna be your hubby.
I know its double standards, tough, Only guys are allowed to do stuff before marriage.

How Gross.uffffff

Any-way

Ahhh...Alvena maybe the guys runs everytime because he mite know other girls that also like him and he doesnt wanna upset anyone.
If other chick witness him fliritng with u, other chic wudn spread s...t abut him everwhere like hes some player, and a degrade in rep is da last thing a guy needs.

as chics spread gossip like aids

aye monk.

I want to know too! I think either he is not interested or he is too shy or maybe playing hard to get?

Or maybe im acting like a scary psycho stalker and he is scared?

I dont flirt with him...i just look at him and think he is cute. I spoke to him once when i was sitting inside a confrence room that he booked so he had to kick me out. I run through that convo allllllll the time!

and also no one else thinks he is all that for some reason! actually one of my friends does, but my crush has a friend who my friend has a crush on so one for her one for me!

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Pathetic thinking has no limits I guess. It's bad enough that society has its own twisted hypocritical standards. But for one to allow themselves the "EXCLUSIVE RIGHT" to a particular behavior......a right which has no place in Islam and which is not confined to a particular gender is EVEN MORE TWISTED/HYPOCRITICAL.

Alvena, here is a suggestion. I want you to try it out a few times when you're around this guy....and see if it makes a difference.

You said that you were "blatantly" staring at him. Um......blatant type of staring can freak people out because it come of as a rather STRONG.

So, if you know that you're going to be in the same place as him, just DON'T look at him. Be occupied with something else. Don't look in his direction, act as if he isn't there EVEN if he IS there. And for a couple of days go "missing in action". Do this for a while.............and see how he reacts.

He might be scared that you like him. So, act like you don't like him....and that might prompt him to act differently.

Ok blatently is a strong word, but i think he knows i look at him in a different way.

But i do like your suggestion and i wll carry the plan out then inform people of what happens.

tomorow will be the day hopefully for phase one of the experiment.

And this is coming from someone that ask guppans randomly that s he should get married or get a gf?

:snooty:

That’s what I meant in my post about allowing yourself the “EXCLUSIVE RIGHT” to a behavior/privilege that has no place in Islam. You either follow all the Islamic guidelines…and if you can’t do so…don’t go around judging others and only allowing yourself liberties that were never solely meant for you. You made a good point above, Gina. You go, girl!

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Sab ko nai batatay... Allah naraz hon gey.