Has anyone met their 'person'? The one whom you truly love, as clich? as it may sound - the one person that even if you may be with someone else in a relationship, this love has never gone away and you don't see it going away either. the one you love and will do anything for.
if you have met that person, are you with them?
if not, why not? do they know you love them? or are things so messed up that even if they do, nothing can be done for you two to be together?
1) We communicate and talk about anything and everything. We are best-friends first before anything. And he feels the same as i do. I go out of my way to do things to make him happy and so does he.
2) We do have disagreements but we talk and sort it out by finding a middle path where we both meet.
3) He is very gentle and calm person and so Am I... If we feel that we have offended each other and we don't hesitate to say sorry.
4) We inspire, motivate and complement each other on small and big things.
@aka princess we change and we grow and our likes and dislikes change also. I fell truly in love several times in my life. One was a girl in Morocco, Nadia. I met her only for three weeks and her memory still lingers. My first wife was my true love but with time and total difference of opinions and values and energy levels we are not at the same level. My new wife although so much younger but are so much alike, she is strong, active, loves food is sharp and attentive with great focus, never complains and whines, works out etc so with her it was the similarities.
Same here..happily married..Alhamdulli'lah! Met my wife..during my toughest time...and she has been with me through..thick and thin...crazily..in love with me.. trusted..guided me right way. All my love, loyalty and everything is for her.
Am there. .now..
but feels pretty normal. .. No euphoria. .no romance… Guy is doing his work. .. I am doing my work. .. .
I had no idea. ..love would feel so normal. ..
I am me. .. All the time. With no need to talk to him. .and it’s just that.. Am always available when he needs me.
But I have seen lately I have less and less need to talk to people , to share anything to anybody, or to nag him abt anything. ..
So maybe this is it. .. .this is how perfection feels like . .when I am absorbed in myself all. The time.. And every moment comes as happy as the last one. . And I don’t need to talk abt anything. .Cz everything is getting done.. Every single day. .As I would wish it to be. .. And if I have time. .. I sit , relax and it’s amazing how neutral I am. ..
Cz there is absolutely this security around me. . . . That I do not need to give a thought to anything at all. ..
I am there. .. And it feels good that only worry I have is what’s for. Dinner. .. .
I can sit in a chair all day and not complain.. .thats my status today. .and that’s what he says " If u wish for me to sit in a chair in a cold. Night. . I would. . Just say.. "..
Enjoyment is a big part of relationship and I am glad we have same ground on that. .we do not like to travel, we do not like to go to bars ,drink, or anything else. .. Enjoyment means making his halwa and for him making my halwa(halwa=irritate him more than he can handle) . .. .having a good walk a family talk. .. .sometimes cooking and eating all day. .laying in bed. .. .And doing things for him. .. Nothing out of the ordinary. ..
sometimes it’s hard. .. But then it stopped being hard when we got to know. .. .love is in u. .And if u love urself and the time u spend with urself.. U will be less demanding from ur partner. And it will be like talking to each other when they need u. .. Not bcz u r needy. ..
And there is this.. Thing. .. We never say no to each other. .. If I say a thing. .. It’s done. . .no questions asked no comments thrown. .if he says something.. .its done. ..
and it’s calm and serene
^^Yay. Happy Times. :D. Very considerate and respectful relationship. That is how relationships should be. I just got married about week ago and i don't regret any second of it. Me and my hubby were always meant to be. We give each other love, respect and space and always had.
No taunts, no nagging and no sarcasm. And if we are upset at each other for whatever reason, we sit down and address the problem and resolve it without being personal.
Ladoos actually aren't an issue, dua kabool hona is
The woman was an emotional nightmare so to speak, irrespective of the niceness that was involved. But a legend in her own right she was, no doubt. Pretty much taught me things I never ever knew