Re: Have you gone out with non-desi/pakistani guys/girls?
Having dated a lebanese/arab girl, i really had no problems at the beginning. but as time went on and our relationship grew, i noticed that there were a few cultural differences that bothered her. She was afraid our families wouldn't get along due to the difference in language, and even more concerned about having our kids learn arabic. I wasn't really bothered, I figured if we had children, they could learn both languages, as long as they had the same religious beliefs and followed islam.
Even though we're both sunni muslims, she couldn't see past the fact that I wasn't lebanese, and figured her parents wouldn't accept me - which is the reason we broke up.
Even though the experience sucked, I'm still open to marry outside my culture. I would definitely prefer a nice Pakistani larki, but I won't know until we find each other!