been interested in/attracted to a married man/woman
or
has a married man/woman been interested in you or attracted to you
don’t give me answers that sound good in theory. I am talking about real experiences and the vibes you get from people or the feelings you have towards them 
They don’t necessarily have to equate to affairs, just crushes i guess? :khums:
disclaimer: Thread is not about me or anyone I know. It’s just a thought.
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No.. for me its a NO-GO area. I never ever feel attractive to any married man.
Even for crush, i need to know the person very well. If i have a crush on someone there is always a good reason, i never have crush on someone just because of his looks. So when a person is married and i know it then there is no chance that i will have a crush on him.
But if he hides his marriage then it will be a whole different case and it has not happened with me yet (Alhamdulillah).
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Never.
Maybe I'm weird but when I come accross a married man, I automatically grant him the status of brotherly friend...not necessarily a brother, but not a friend either. I think crushes happen when you're open minded about them...like oh what the heck it's just a crush. Personally I'd feel I'm stepping over my boundaries.
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Never.
I just don't think it's possible with me. It's an automatic mental block and I'm not sure how it works. I think it might depend on how we...umm..'train' our minds to think.
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Personally no. BUT I have seen it happen and it was quite funny.
The guy is completely oblivious and adores his wife. This other woman (also married) shamelessly tries to flirt with him, get his attention, make his favorite desserts, etc. Its a scene the wife enjoys because he has no idea and that makes the efforts funnier.
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Ewwwww.. Never Ever.... He is already taken, why would I have a crush on em?
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I dunno I think there are different ways of looking at a crush.....it doesn't always have to be romantic.
waise how far wud the crush go? is it a matter of....you like how the person thinks and acts and comes across...and want your spouse to have traits like that....that's not a bad thing I think.
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OMG all.the.time.
Reminded me of a dialogue from a James Bond movie. Something along these lines:
Bond: You are not my type.
Lady: Why, because I am smart?
Bond: No, because you are single.
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not exactly answering your question but yes someone did express interest in me. and they went totally psychotic and creepy and it was just a really bad experience.
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^ Why you gotta break balls in public Sara? Jeez I said I am sorry, I didn't mean to come across all creepy and psychotic. And I wasn't taking my medicine properly so I was seeing stuff.
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Sorry Altair :(
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Like someone is going to admit it here 
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no. never. most married men have pot bellies. though i used to like men in their 30's when i was 15.
i don't remember any married man openly declaring his love/crush for me, most of them are quite mature and careful which is a good thing.
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older men are hot, if they come in the form of lets sayyyy...george clooney, hugh jackman, johnny depp.
but seriously, no i haven't.
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eyyy no.i think drooling at men who are taken is wrong
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It doesnt make sense to me. Only farigh people will be attracted to no go area.
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but married people dnt come with a tag on their face tht says “married”, so what if u fall for one without knowing their martial status? 
Just wondering 
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Seems like a scene from a movie or a desi soap.
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I was wondering the same thing. It is such a taboo in all societies.
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well love is blind, but a lover shouldnt be.
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well love is blind, but a lover shouldnt be.
mujhe tu lagta hai its the other way arnd :p love is not n lovers r :D