yea i’ve been to only one burial ceremony at the local musjid. my best friend’s grandfather had died and i didn’t really see the body except for like a white cloth and then they laid him in some cardboard box. i don’t like going to funerals, really i know you should, but like once in the 8th grade a classmate died and i didn’t even go to the funeral cuz i was so depressed.
but yes, we all will die one day and we shouldn’t fear anything but Allah (swt)
What I meant was that only males give ghusal to a male dead body and females to females.
Hope it is much clear now:) we would’nt want a male going around and giving ghusal to a female. Ghusal ka basic maqsud hai pak karna and once a woman is dead even her own husband becomes na-mehram.
my moms dead body , i touched her feet , they were cold as ice ..
n then my uncles dead body 11 days ago ..
n i just cant forget the day when i saw a 4 month old dead baby.....
oh boy, seen it a lot!!
ask me how and inwhat kind a situation…i have seen a MURDER with my own very eyes…like i literally SAW IT!!!
Then, I saw a woman caughtin up all in fire…maan she burned out!!
Then, an ACCIDENT…that was more painful, b/c b4 this guy had an accident i was acctually thinking about him…creepy huh?
Lastly, done a lot dissection in the first semester of med school! IT WAS FUUUUUUUUUN MAAAN!! like the best experience in the beginning but then it got boring when we had to dissect this male bodie’s pelvic region…ewwww!!!
Guys you shouldn't fear ! as death is on all of us. Try to do good deeds this life is just for 60-80 yrs life after death is much more beautiful and ever lasting .
have seen many n once my friendz uncle died n i waz next to him(other ppl az well), he got heart attack n fall down, my friend kame to our house screamin me n my father ran to hiz house, our land lord uzed to b a doctor i kalled him, when he kame we pickin up the body from the floor doctor checked him n he said....:(
that must be very tough for u sandu. … 
May Allah give u the strenght. :flower: