So many times women think there is someone else, or know there is, and can’t ever get a straight answer out of the husband/boyfriend. Cheaters always try to keep their “conquests” divided and tell each that “she” is the one and only, or that the other is not interested in sex or got fat or whatever.
Have you ever suspected and just gone to the other woman and asked to verify or deny? Did you find that he was telling her the same story about you to her as he tells about her to you?
I did, kinda but it wasn't the other woman for me, but for my best friend.
Turned out there were TWO other women, and that he was telling them all the same lies. Weirdest confrontation ever. One of the 'women' was just a 16 year old girl, which was even worse.
Obv they broke up (they weren't married thank fudge) but it made her not trust men for a very long time :(
I did, kinda but it wasn't the other woman for me, but for my best friend.
Turned out there were TWO other women, and that he was telling them all the same lies. Weirdest confrontation ever. One of the 'women' was just a 16 year old girl, which was even worse.
Obv they broke up (they weren't married thank fudge) but it made her not trust men for a very long time :(
Did they tell you it was none of your business? And did either of those others keep him?
Did they tell you it was none of your business? And did either of those others keep him?
Nah. Firstly cos my friend wanted be to be there, secondly because none of them were really angry at each other, just a bit in shock. They couldn't tell me it's none of my business, I was there purely to make sure my friend would be okay, and it wasn't really a case of 'who the hell are you' etc etc. It was just really weird, like they all had sympathy/empathy with each other cos they all knew how the other felt, but also very, very awkward.
Like, they were sharing chat up lines and stuff that he'd used on them, and how he'd make an excuse to one girl cos he was with the other etc etc.
My other half hasn’t cheated (that I know of) but the crazy girl that was stalking him (had his name tattooed on her etc) once rang me and did used to txt me quite a bit from another person’s phone.. I did call the number back but never actually spoke to her.. Did exchange txts with her
My exgirlfriend did once long time ago when got into relationship. There was family friend of ours. A girl was totally in love with me. So this other girl wrote me bunch of emails expressing that she has huge crush on me. O well..stupid of me..i told my exgirlfriend now. O man!..it was nasty fight.
I was told about someone who years and years ago enjoyed a bi-sexual lifestyle. His wife couldn’t do anything about it and when her saas asked her to explain about the conflict in the mian-biwi relationship, she took her saas to “see” her son and his partner Suffice it to say, the saas never again said anything to her DIL.
Years ago in college...I suspected BF was cheating...I confronted the "other woman" first....who also happened to be my best friend at that time. She denied it and called me crazy. Then I confronted him and he said the same. I stuck to my "beliefs"...and the friendship with her ended. 2 months later...they started dating openly. They dated for 3 years or so. He bought a ring to propose...she dumped him for another guy. To my knowledge, as of today she's still single.
2nd time:
About 1.5 years ago..one of my fiance's friend and her husband were in town for a mutual friend's wedding and stayed at our house. To make a very LONG story short...she did/said some things that were disrespectful towards me....but the icing on the cake was that by accident, I saw a text she sent to my guy (mind you, her HUSBAND is with her too!) pretty much stating that she wants to create a opportunity to have sex with him (my guy). I threw a huge fit....BF talked to her (I saw the text before he did)....and her and I had a somewhat civil conversation (we had other guests in the house and I didn't want to create a scene). She made some B.S. excuses for her behavior. End result: Their 7 year friendship ended after that trip (I gave my guy a choice to either continue his friendship with her OR his relationship with me).
Suffice it to say, the saas never again said anything to her DIL.