I once read this joke about how to find out if your cousin is romantically interested in you. You simply sneak up behind her and put your arms around/hug her…if she flips out and gets ANGRY…you cover up your courageous mistake by jumping up and down and saying, “Baji dar gayi, baji dar gayi!”
LOOOOOOOOOOOL!!! A corny joke/idea. But one that could possible save someone from pursuing the matter further. 