yes or no can suffice. but u can also state the what part.
Yes, for being lame at some point in life
yes or no can suffice. but u can also state the what part.
Yes, for being lame at some point in life
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
Yes.
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
** reply to serious for all view **
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
Yes.
For not helping out classmates when they got bullied by other lifeless*= some big gaali* kids from class.
Fear of not wanting to become the target of the bullies. They were proper gunday already at that age.
I still feel so much guilt for just standing there doing nothing.
I always wanted to speak against them when they acted mean, but didnt.
This was when we were 10/11 years old.
If only one could reverse time...
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
yes. that suffices, i guess.
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
of course everybody has some draw back at some point in their lives. I am not able to forgive myself for number of things which i wouldn't mention here.
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
Yes ![]()
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Not exactly havent forgiven myself, but I do feel VERY bad about it now. There was a girl in my college who looked very, very masculine, and who dressed like a boy most of the time, she wasn't born and bred in UK and didn't have much clue about fashion. The one day she tried to make an effort, got her eyebrows done, bought a new outfit, poor girl got laughed at. I feel heartbroken to think of it now because she was so proud of herself at making so much effort and it didn't make a difference cos she still looked the same. I've seen her a few times since and she's completely changed, cut her hair off, wears men's jackets and trainers, and hides any curves. If I didn't already know beforehand, i would genuinely think she was a teenaged boy. I've feel so so bad that I didn't stand up for her at the time, as at the time I didn't really notice what was going on, but it makes me think that if I had made some effort it could have stopped her being in the position that she is in today. I feel awful to think how difficult it must have been for her to make the decision to dress like a boy and just accept the way she looked.
I've certainly learned my lesson from it now anyway.
Yes ![]()
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
No !
Don't know
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
i have forgiven every1 and myself in life...
i aint that rigid
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
Yes.
For not fighting when I should have done so to protect somone who needed my help most. I will redeem myself Insha Allah by going back and helping that person if they are still alive and to stand by them for the rest of my life... Only then will I forgive myself.
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
Clear yes. I regret doing a number of things that I should've never done. Out of all, there's one regret that pretty much bugs me every other day. And I cant solely forgive myself because the other person decides not to do the same.
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
generally Yes…,but it sure as hell took a long time
ive finally made peace with myself for hurting some people in my pre-teens it took me so long to forgive myself even after they had forgiven me that ive gone to great lengths to keep myself from feeling that guilty again… may Allah continue to make me successful in that endeavour Ameen
there are two things i have yet to forgive myself for and I think I will carry that guilt to my grave :hinna: only cuz the people that guilt is related to have passed on and i cant make it right
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
Yes ..................... I Regret Even Today For Being So Lame That Day :(
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
yes
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
I am somewhere between not forgiving myself and I couldn't affect it.
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
I have not. Nor I intend to.
Re: have u not forgiven urslef for something?
I don't wanna talk about it.